Posts Regarding Abuse
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Posts Regarding Abuse
Just want to clarify something
A certain person has posted that he is sick of abuse he's getting in lobbies, indirectly referring to the fun cup which I host.
When explaining his own abusive behaviour in the not too distant past, he has explained that he suffers aspergers, which as someone who registers on the autism spectrum I understand how difficult that can be, but that was no excuse for the way he went off on one at Jordan after the Indy race!
During tonight's race, there was a fair bit of banter to ALL drivers involved. Yes, he got some himself, the odd lawnmowers comment for his corner cutting at Indy, when he came out with pointless irrelevant comments he did get the odd "nobody cares" comment, but so did I when I made irrelevant comments! And the thing that has made me angriest about his public rant is that not once did he mention to me that it was bothering him, at no point did he make any comments in any lobbies about external issues and throughout the event HE WAS LAUGHING ALONG TOO!!
I'm absolutely raging that he has the audacity to then go public bitching about an event I spend my (very limited) free time organising, an event intended to help newbies get used to TORA rules in a light-hearted environment, as my first race was GT Sprint R1 and I got battered! I'm seriously considering quitting as a result of this. I work two jobs a total of 65 hours a week, get one day and two evenings a week off work and sacrifice spending quality time with my fiancée who works two hours away from where we live to run this event only to get shafted by this person
A certain person has posted that he is sick of abuse he's getting in lobbies, indirectly referring to the fun cup which I host.
When explaining his own abusive behaviour in the not too distant past, he has explained that he suffers aspergers, which as someone who registers on the autism spectrum I understand how difficult that can be, but that was no excuse for the way he went off on one at Jordan after the Indy race!
During tonight's race, there was a fair bit of banter to ALL drivers involved. Yes, he got some himself, the odd lawnmowers comment for his corner cutting at Indy, when he came out with pointless irrelevant comments he did get the odd "nobody cares" comment, but so did I when I made irrelevant comments! And the thing that has made me angriest about his public rant is that not once did he mention to me that it was bothering him, at no point did he make any comments in any lobbies about external issues and throughout the event HE WAS LAUGHING ALONG TOO!!
I'm absolutely raging that he has the audacity to then go public bitching about an event I spend my (very limited) free time organising, an event intended to help newbies get used to TORA rules in a light-hearted environment, as my first race was GT Sprint R1 and I got battered! I'm seriously considering quitting as a result of this. I work two jobs a total of 65 hours a week, get one day and two evenings a week off work and sacrifice spending quality time with my fiancée who works two hours away from where we live to run this event only to get shafted by this person
TheAngryPudding- TORA Race Number : 989
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Hi Michael this was not aimed at you was abuse directed to our chief marshal and during the TCC meeting
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Understand that mate. I wasn't necessarily referring to your post about standards (but you have answered a question) I'm just absolutely hopping right now
TheAngryPudding- TORA Race Number : 989
Number of posts : 1261
Location : Suffolk
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Yep agree dude, keep up the good work and I understand your pain about hours worked 60 myself last week!MichaelJGroves wrote:Understand that mate. I wasn't necessarily referring to your post about standards (but you have answered a question) I'm just absolutely hopping right now
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Sorry about the constant hassle that seems to emanate on certain topics such as this guys, but I'm just past the point of understanding some people! lol
FSR Groves- TORA Race Number : 96
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If you guys need me to talk to him, let me know and I'll see what I can do.
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